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Sabtu, 22 Oktober 2011

Gaining Confident To Speak English



Dear friend,


Below is a very helpful tip to help you gain confidence to speak English more.

Hot English Tip #7
Gaining Confidence To Speak English

If you are like most people, you often feel down, lack confidence, feel frustrated or feel that you are not progressing very much with your English.

It's actually quite easy to overcome these problems. All you need to do is build your confidence.

How do you do this quickly and easily?

There are a few things you should not do:

Try not to:
* Compare yourself to other people's level of English.
* Tell yourself or say to other people,

"My English is poor",
or
"My English is broken" or anything like this.

Learning English is not a competition with other people, it's like a game of golf.

The goal with learning English is to keep improving your level. It does not matter what your level is, it's all about constantly improving.

The purpose of practicing golf is to keep improving your game (lowering your score).

Asian people usually compare themselves with others. Their focus is on the other people, thinking things like, "What will they say?", or "What will they think if I make a mistake".

This kills your confidence.

The focus should be on yourself, "How can I improve?", or "I am improving, therefore my English is going well".

You will always feel confident if your focus is here.

Another reason why people do not have much confidence is because they worry about making mistakes, thinking others will laugh or say negative things about their mistakes.

This however, does not happen.

Let's prove this...

Have you ever made a mistake in your native language?

Of course you have right?

Now, when you make mistakes in your native language (the language which you are the "expert" in) do people laugh at you?
Do people say bad things about you for making a mistake?

No way, right?

Well, why or how can people laugh or say bad things about you when you make mistakes in English (your second language which you are learning)?
They cannot. So, do not think or worry that people will do this, it will never happen.

In fact other people will be scared to laugh or comment about your English mistakes because either:

Your English is better than theirs, so they cannot comment (they will feel embarrassed if they do)

or

They are also learning English and understand that learning English is difficult. They understand making mistakes are a part of learning, so they will not comment,
In fact they may help you.

Best of luck, study with confidence from now on.

Rohan Cox
English Essentials
Rapid Learning, Instant Results

Salam sjahtera...

sekarang aku berada di Malaysia.
dalam tempoh selepas kawin hingga skang. da dalam setahun gak..ni kali ke 3 aku balik..
penat xpenat la badan ni kesana kesini..tapi bkn wat pe pon balik..duk umh je...kalo kuar pon sbb jadik driver abah n adik..mentang2la da pandai bawak kete kt Malaysia ni...asyik kena jadik driver je..lgpon best bawak kete slalu..mcm2 skill aku terbelajar sndiri...(rasa mcm nk wat drifft pon ada sbb sll main game,tp pikir kete bapak aku..xjadikla..kang ape2 hal jadik...sian bapak aku..huu)

Walaupon da balik Malaysia..ttap xpuas jmpa isteri tercinta...asyik duk berjauhan je..jmpa kjap2..alhamdulillah raya haji ni die balik..dapatla lepaskan rindu,,

Pejam celik..da hampir bln 12..maka lbih sblan je duk kt sni..rasa xsabar nk balik..selesaikan belajar..da byak kot blja kt kuliah skng..asyik terlepas je..tahun lepas sampai2 mesir pas sbln trus peksa...alhamdulilah sempat blaja..tu pon mcm org gila da aku ni.xtawla tahun ni mcm mna..mntak2 peksa bln 2 ke..hehe..
Alhamdulillah da 5 paper da lepas..lg 4 paper je lg...iAllah aku akan strugle gile2 lg tuk 4 madah ni..berikan aku kekuatan..kesihatan ya Alllah..
Moga naik4 thn ni..amin ya Allah..
Sebuk2 peksa...dalam pikiran ni asyik terpikir je nak balik Malaysia jumpa syg..rinduunyer..
lain rupanya rasa da kawin ngn belom kawin ni...dlu lom kawin berjauhan xjumpa bertahun2 pon xkesah..ni da kawin baru bberapa bulan je da terseksa gile...aku rasa mcmni..tapi isteri aku lg la rasa perit..
so sapa2 yg lom kawin..jgn kawin masa belaja mcm aku ni..kalo duk brsama xpe..kalo berjauhan jgn,,huhu



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